Rude

Yes sometimes we are going to come off as rude. We will ask you to wash your hands after touching dairy before you touch our daughter. If you touch something of hers it will be taken away from her so it can be washed. We are doing this to protect her not to upset you. I would rather do 45 loads of laundry than take her to the ER. We understand you want to play with her but that means hands get washed first.